Re: de-linking painful thoughts
- Subject: Re: de-linking painful thoughts
- From: Jobet Claudio <jobet@mnl.sequel.net>
- Date: Tue, 17 Sep 1996 13:44:11 +0800
>>> Jobet
>>
>>Okay, here is a very important question. Have you learned anything from the
>>painful memories? Like maybe learn to stay away from people that allow you
>>to have painful experiences? Without knowing exactly what happened I
>>can't tell you what to do. However, from my experience I have seen lots of
>>people keep going back to the same or similar situation over and over and
>> wonder why they keep feeling pain. Maybe changing the people and
>>situations that you are drawn to is what would be most helpful. Many
>>people who cheat or abuse do it over and over and over again. Now, I can't
>>tell you what is best in your situation but maybe there is something you
>>need to learn that would be better in the long run than going back to the old
>>situation.
>>
>>
>hi there!
>
>Yes, I have learned a lot of things since then, and one of them is that
perhaps we would not have gone separate ways if we were married today. I was
young and reactive then. Today, thanks to NLP and Covey, I know that I
always have a choice of responses to a given situation.
>
>Hmm...I think I see embedded commands in your communication, but I don't
mind. At any rate, I don't think they were necessary for me to assess what
happenned to our marriage the last time around.
>
>
>Peace to all!
>
Jobet Claudio