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This article is a reply on time-distinctions from Lidy Oosterhof
and it's a second sent because I have noticed that there were some
problems with my mail programm.

Sorry, and I hope you can read it now better !!




Hi Lidy,


I wonder of this is what you mean?


A few weeks ago, I was sitting by a friend and as always I ask a lot of
strange questions

the first one was: tell me "how do you look at your future?"

and
                                   "how much money will you earn let's say
between
                                                            now  and three
months"
and
                                    "do you like to have children in your
future"

By each question he looked at me, and said  " I can only look till today"
So for me that was........ oke....till he said " but I like to look more
forward" and then I thought >>>>>>>>>     let's play    <<<<<<<<<<<<<<
So I said to him, HOW old would you like to be in the future??
He said..... hmmmm .........  170 years.
I said OKE ......try to imagine (close your eyes NOW) that you are.....
like 80 years and I saw he did.... and he did well. He saw himself and the
surrounding of that place etc.
It's a big step from living IN one day to see you when you are 80.
But he did fine.
Then I asked him " how many children do YOU LIKE TO HAVE" and he said again
"I can only see one day". And I said sure you can only see one day so
that's why I like to speak with him, (and I looked to his forhead) I prefer
to speak with your unconscious, so let your conscious go to the fanfare and
have a good time over there ( there are a lot of nice things to do outhere
) and he said ok. Can I speak to your
unconscious NOW, he shaked his head... up and down...for me that
is......yes
So I asked him do you like to have children in the future, and it said.....
yes...... three.
And (only) one tear came over his cheek............
So it went dame good and I thought  >>>>let's play more <<<<<<,,
How much money would you like to earn more.... in let's say three months
from now.
His eyes went up and he said 300,- dutch gilder....... that' like $187

By now, .......four month's  later....he earns almost 300,- more than
before!
he went on holiday for the fist time in 8 years.....alone!
he went to the hairdresser to cut his hair......since many years!
etc.

I often notice that a lot of people don't look forwards and when you learn
them they start to like it. And often they say.....hmm...... I like
it........let's play more.......
and more.

Perhaps that is what you mean with your article and the timelines we all
have?
So think about something you liked very mutch....something from the
past.....something you like very mutch....perhaps you can find something
better....that's right.............
....anchor it...and then..... look in your future ( to some place you like
)..... and anchor at the precise way...... you........ just did..... and
feel how it feels......perhaps you can... try it again with more feeling
...............................that's right.


For me I don't believe that you can say one is in time or between
time....all the time.
Most people just don't know........ HOW.....but when you learn this to them
often they become very excited. And I often notice that they like to be in
your surrounding just because they think you can give them a good feeling
and they are right......
YOU KNOW !!!




Stay Well and Relax

Jan Willem Nicolay
The Netherlands