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Re: Alcoholism




Patrick Farrell <pfarrell@jones.edu> wrote:
>
> Rene wrote:
>
> > I gave training to therapists at alcohol & drugs clinics.
> > Many of them seemed to suffer from burn-out symptoms.
> <snip>
> > first impression: Who are the patients and who are the therapists?
> > I couldn't distinguish on a psychological level. Your experiences?
>
> I concur.
>
> I was working to become an Alcohol Counselor a few years ago.  I went
> thru the application process and get to the final interview.  I had
> all the right answers and the interviewer was impressed.  Then at the
> end, he [...] said, "Pat, I have one question ...
<snip>
> The question:  Why would you want to take all these peoples' problems
> home with you?


Does this issue, the counselor/therapist/changeworker/etc taking
the clientele's problems home with him, seem to come up especially
with clients with addiction behaviors?  If so, I wonder why?
Not having a great deal of experience counseling others, I would have
expected this to be a potential issue when doing changework with almost
any sort of client population.  I also don't see why a counselor
couldn't learn to leave the clientele's issues "at work" rather than
"taking them home" (put those NLP skills to good use, and all that).
For example, I just can't imagine Bandler carrying around *anyone's*
problems (perhaps not even his own) ...


-- Kurt Luoto