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Ross's 14 nephew

Hi Ross,

Your nephew is a very lucky guy. You can tell him
he is very successful on this mailing list.
People of 4 continents (nobody from Africa there ?)
want to take care of him.

Here are my hints.

I do think you can help him a lot. Aren't you strongly
skilled in NLP DHE and hypnosis stuff ?

1. Enhance rapport with him. Obvious isn't ?

2. You have to teach him skills using embedded command first,
   then bring him to enjoy deep trance.
   You can do this that way : as a joke tell him to experiment
   you can make him get high without any pot just managing
   his own internal states with your help. Then just tell him
   something as : 'Want to learn this, I can teach you'.
   You are openning the door to deep trance states, sliding
   anchors, ecstatic states and all that stuff.

3. Now you can teach him skills. What skills specifically ?
   - To be the kind of guy that is not there when dirty things
     are coming up. As beginning to smoke crack, as being enrolled
     in a gang, as playing with guns...etc
     I think you have to teach him how to install layers of ethical stuff
     and to teach him how he is right to follow his own pathway against
     his dad's opinion, against his familly's opinion, against his
     delinquent friends' opinion, against the society's opinion, how he is
     right because he is an ethical guy... and how following his own
     pathway.. he is becoming more and more ethical... because he is
     becoming to notice whom of his friends can bring him towards valuable
     experiences as he had noticed his father can't....etc...
     (loops, loops, nested loops)
   - To be able to quickly elicit how the situation in the street
     would turn, is it a good idea to play this shoplifting game in this
     right place or not ? For him it is a question of staying alive and
well..(!!).

     (Somebody doesn't agree here ? Oh guys remember...the map and the
territory..
     this kid is playing tough game, he wants to learn managing his
fears...doing
     that.. the best thing to teach him is to know how to choose the right
store
     to play shoplifting... that's not a moral issue but that's the right
strategy
     to avoid him being shot by a shopkeeper..(!!).. I think this kind of
desaster
     could happen in US. )

4. Try something to SCARE him. From a deep trance state (he! he!) I remember
Richard
   speaking about one of his friends who was sponsoring prison tours for
teens and
   he was giving cigarettes cartoons to prisonners so they would be actually
*ABUSIVE*
   when the teens are coming in to visit. So his dad wouldn't look so
abusive...
   If you can try something like that..

I hope this would help, who knows..?

Be well.

-Bernard Frit