Re:14 Year Old Nephew
While in a trance - PhotoReading my Japanese dictionary - ideas about Ross'
nephew came naturally. Hope they're useful.
1) Speed seduction has been very useful to me, though my lady needs neither
kissing or f****** at all, just yet, she needs help with her work. Some
embedded commands seduced her into accepting help. Rapport, breathing,
deepened the understanding. We got to the point of answering a question at
the same time with the same words.
Thank you for your help, Ross. I found that a spiritual, mental & working
relationship is even deeper and longer lasting than a couple of hours in
bed.
You have great resources at your disposal. Make a plan carefully - then do it.
2) A man does not need kicking when he is down and asking for help!
>Give him the free Speed Seduction Home Study Course so he
>can get laid and teach him how to say, "Fucked Up" a lot
3) I wonder if the boy can respond very well to:
>So..how can I reframe/change his beliefs about winning/losing/being in
>pain, etc?
It is important for him to see ways in which his father is trying to help
him. His father is probably trying hard, though desperately misguided. It
is hard for a child to take on the resources of an older man, though not
completely impossible.
It would be useful if he can come to see that he has an opportunity to gain
great strength (with help from his elders) from his present distress. The
abuse would make it really easy to dissociate from the present and to see
developing into someone strong and understanding in the future.
I would suggest a sport or karate, (mine is sailing,) as one vehicle to
this change of perception. Ross' embedded commands would get the nephew
into something in no time. The only trick being to make the program long
term.
4) Dad needs some embedded commands to get him to realise that his good
intentions in correcting his child need professional guidance. The way that
they are being expressed, right now, is coming off as abuse instead of
education.
5) Find the positive in all of the situation and work through that. How?
Dialogue with this august group, then with a practitioner in your area. You
cannot see yur own problems clearly; you will all need hands on help.
6) If all else really fails: child may need to be separated from parent, at
least untill the parent responds to treatment ( for his own abuse?).
I shall be interested to see other responses to a really difficult situation.
George